Mehrdad,
I wonder about those cameras on e-bay. Might be to avoid getting cursed by Contax. Their web site is selling them for $6999 - go figure.
Diane,
I just tried and ended up buying a program called ThumbsPlus that works great for organizing and basic manipulation. Very well engineered UI, it even recognized my dual monitors. It is more pricey ($75) than PhotoRecall. You can try it for free (at
http://www.cerious.com ), along with the various others available, and decide which best suits you.
As Michael says, there's no substitute for speed. If you can spend it, go for a PC1066 based Pentium 4 with Rambus, at least 1 GB of memory.
Speaking of speed, I got the Firewire Reader from Lexar, and it totally blew away my Sandisk USB (1.1 standard) reader, which got benched to backup status. I haven't seen any USB 2.0 readers. Definitely go Firewire.
Also,
http://www.googlegear.com has the 1GB IBM Microdrives for $219. I got two, but plan to use them to archive photos shot during my trips / shoots - I'm leery about stuff with moving parts on the go, so I have 2 Lexar 24x 512MB cards (these are the fastest I know of and very reliable) for the camera, then transfer at night to the Microdrive.
For printing I opted for best quality and went with Kodak Thermal Dye Transfer. The 8500 printer (I am unpacking mine as we speak

goes for $900 at
http://www.UniquePhoto.com, but only does up to 8x10 and the consumables are $$$ - around $1.70 per 8x10 (paper and ribbon cost). If you want the best ... I'll wait for my larger print solution while I establish a nice collection of what will probably be 7x10s
Best of luck and fun!
DJ