Tom Caldwell
Well-Known Member
I have to comment here as to what I think a forum is.
It is the modern day equivalent of pen friends. Only here you can converse with multiple pen friends at the same time and share common interests.
But with all of these social communications they need two way traffic. Likes are good but they are terminal. Unless a swag full of likes creates some form of adulation index, a form of "name on a pillar waiting for the statue to be carved", they are arguably socially stale and truly the end of the discussion.
Posting images is only part of the life of the forum - it is amusing to trawl through the images of others and see and appreciate the work but the "pen friendship" is really all about words.
Years ago I was on a site called "Harphampix" which was basically an image critique site where we posted to receive our peer group responses. None of us were expert photographers but we knew what we liked and could make comments. We quickly worked out that 'nice pic' comments were much the same as 'likes'. As much as caustic derogatory comments were not welcome either. So we developed a helpful considerate style of critique. Some newbies could not take any sort of critique whatsover however nicely put. But friendhsips lasting until this day developed - even though the site has long since gone. You soon get to understand that a fault that you have noticed but 'think' that nobody else will .... it never ever does not go unseen and is pointed out. And so we become more careful in our photography - it was of immense help to me.
But of course if we don't post images for critiques then preening our very best is ok but what do we then expect other than the satisfaction of accumulating 'likes'. But of course I love being liked as much as anyone else ....
But uploading images is only part of the social contract. We need to have discussions as well. Controversial if necessary, but nevertheless a true meeting of minds. This forum will only be as good as we the members make it by the content that we provide. It is not going to work if we all collectively wait for someone else to write first, or if after writing nobody responds.
We all have other lives to live and it is understandable that we cannot always find the time to type words. But a post every now and then can generate quite a lot of traffic and make the site interesting.
It is the modern day equivalent of pen friends. Only here you can converse with multiple pen friends at the same time and share common interests.
But with all of these social communications they need two way traffic. Likes are good but they are terminal. Unless a swag full of likes creates some form of adulation index, a form of "name on a pillar waiting for the statue to be carved", they are arguably socially stale and truly the end of the discussion.
Posting images is only part of the life of the forum - it is amusing to trawl through the images of others and see and appreciate the work but the "pen friendship" is really all about words.
Years ago I was on a site called "Harphampix" which was basically an image critique site where we posted to receive our peer group responses. None of us were expert photographers but we knew what we liked and could make comments. We quickly worked out that 'nice pic' comments were much the same as 'likes'. As much as caustic derogatory comments were not welcome either. So we developed a helpful considerate style of critique. Some newbies could not take any sort of critique whatsover however nicely put. But friendhsips lasting until this day developed - even though the site has long since gone. You soon get to understand that a fault that you have noticed but 'think' that nobody else will .... it never ever does not go unseen and is pointed out. And so we become more careful in our photography - it was of immense help to me.
But of course if we don't post images for critiques then preening our very best is ok but what do we then expect other than the satisfaction of accumulating 'likes'. But of course I love being liked as much as anyone else ....
But uploading images is only part of the social contract. We need to have discussions as well. Controversial if necessary, but nevertheless a true meeting of minds. This forum will only be as good as we the members make it by the content that we provide. It is not going to work if we all collectively wait for someone else to write first, or if after writing nobody responds.
We all have other lives to live and it is understandable that we cannot always find the time to type words. But a post every now and then can generate quite a lot of traffic and make the site interesting.